How Do You Want To Show Up In Your Relationships?

Before we can solve the problems, we have to truly understand the problems. This is actually an area where my clients tend to go wrong–they want to jump right into solution mode with their relationship partner(s). That tends not to work because without really taking the time to understand, we make assumptions that are wrong and therefore we don’t find the solution that is right. So . . . not only am I going to teach you a more effective way, I’m going to model it as your coach. I will take the time to learn about all aspects of your identity and history that are relevant to your sex & relationship goals. I also have a growing awareness for how our different identities intersect with each other and am dedicated to continuing to educate myself about race, gender, orientation, religion, age, differing abilities, etc. I don’t presume to know everything about someone else’s experience and enter each client relationship with a culturally humble attitude.

Humans are fascinating and that’s a big part of why I love my job. But . . . we are all kinda complex creatures at the end of the day. Some things are not so obvious! And guess what? You’re SO not the only one who has struggles when it comes to intimacy and relationships. Because of that, I spend a decent amount of time educating my clients about the change process, communication skills, attachment styles, etc. I want you to come out of this process feeling like you could coach a few other people in your life (if you wanted to . . . but I’m happy to take the referrals too, lol!).

I hope for each of my clients to be able to be in relationships and express themselves in a way that feels authentic and in alignment for them as an individual. It’s not about me projecting my values onto you . . . it’s about me helping you tune into your own and achieve alignment with that! That’s an exciting day’s work for me!